I measure myself in strength,
not pounds, sometimes in smiles
– Laurie Halse Anderson
From time to time, I’m frustrated at how much time / money people spend in fixing their outer appearance. People are so afraid to be judged according to their physical attribution.
I have no problem to see if someone who cares the look and dress nice, but simply because these make them feel worthy and a sign of self-love, not because assume once they change this and that, people will love or respect them more.
It’s not, I’ve met so many so-called gorgeous / beautiful people, but you just can’t get along with them after you know their characters / personalities. You just don’t want to spend 5 minutes more with them because their energy just drag you down.
I strongly feel inner beauty is the most incompatible quality that make you attract others.
So, How do you define yourself?
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