About Me


I’m a family scapegoat who survived from dysfunctional / toxic family, raised by abusive / narcissistic father and experienced childhood abuse : sexually, emotionally and psychologically.


It took me YEARS to figure out what happened to me and the so-called family.  I was so confused – didn’t know what to do and how to get help for myself.


Though I eventually survive but carry many unspeakable pain / hurt. People see me as a normal introvert but deep down I have many invisible emotional / psychological scars that need to be addressed and healed.


Not mentioning dealing all the side-effects : such as self-doubts, shame and guilty during the healing journey.   


So frustrated and fed up with all taboos and misconception from society.  At the end the healing journey is so lonely and rough.  I understand the challenges of adult survivors for childhood abuse and those who grew up from dysfunctional families.  

This is a platform for adult survivors, or anyone who cares about unspeakable topics : child abuse, sexual, emotional, psychological  abuses.  We can learn, empower and support each other with love, wisdom and courage.


Let’s join hands to raise awareness of childhood, sexual, psychological and emotional abuses.  Help to break taboos of toxic families/parents so no more dirty secrets.


6 thoughts on “About Me”

  1. Excellent, insightful and helpful, thank you for supporting Scapegoats and appreciate your work to reduce the shame and victim blaming abuse of scapegoat children.

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    1. Sorry to hear about your struggle. join me on FB since i am not quite active on wordpress nowadays. Instead FB page has more updates. You will find that you are not alone as we have many people going through similar things like you.

      Thanks for your message. this exactly why i need to set this whole thing up at the beginning. Have a great weekend.

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