Be careful with your words. once they’re said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.
Your inner voice is incredibly critical – children of toxic parents often have a severe deficit in self-esteem and self-worth.
Survivors of family scapegoating must learn to trust their feelings and perceptions.
When you can tell your story and it doesn’t make you cry. That’s when you know you’ve healed.
We should pay attention of children’s dreams, since they are not mature enough to express their feelings / thoughts but through their descriptions of dreams, we will get some ideas about their fear / concerns and stories that never told us.
Or sometimes I encountered people who claim they are “Morale” while keep on throwing dirty jokes, this actually indicate their repressed sexual desire at certain level. I came across this situation several times and they are all female.
We never can trust what someone say in surface, a slip of tongue may express more about their hidden desire / value. Watch out!
What do you think?