Quote 116 – Signs of Narcissistic Parent 15

Reacted to any form of criticism in an extreme way.

Narcissistic parent would scream at you and likely physically hurt you through smacking or some other method.

Psychology # 21 : Favoritism

 

 

This Quote described my situation at dysfunctional family very well.

 

According to my observation, it’s not only happen in family system, but also in everyday life, such as workplace.

 

Many times I observed colleagues / bosses will favorite a specific staff, in order to show his / her hate on another person.  Body languages displayed that these targets people are no longer worthy in their eyes.

 

And if it happens in family, it can destroy self-esteem / self-worth of a child, which in turn will affect his / her all aspect of life.

Quote 179 – Toxic family members

In toxic family, when targeted child speaks up or confront the abuse, other family members will join together to attack the abused child, protect narcissistic parent blindly and pretend everything is fine.

Quote 115 – Signs of Narcissistic Parent 14

They have the golden child and the scapegoat child.

One child was seen as perfect and capable of doing no harm.

The other child was seen as the black sheep, and the cause of all issues.

Quote 177 – Family dysfunctional system

Scapegoating is a serious family dysfunctional problem with one member of the family being blamed for small things, picked on and constantly put down.