Quote 182 – Psychological harm to abused child 3

Difficulty making and keeping relationships.


Quote 125 – Dysfunctional family scapegoat 4

The scapegoat finds him / herself not only rejected by his / her own immediate family.  But possibly by those outside it too.

Psychology # 61 : Reaction Formation

We human afraid of being rejected or any uncomfortable feelings.


In order to save face and pretend nothing is happen, to protect our self-ego, we may act like nothing is happening and everything is fine.


That’s sad because if we don’t admit there’s a problem, we can never heal.


Do you recognize this symptoms from anyone you know?

Psychology # 54 : Closed Handed Family

This is very different from the “closed family”.


Closed Handed family is all members in the family is kind of tied together in a unhealthy way.  They can’t grow emotionally and individuality is disappear in this type of family.


I cherish closed and supported family, but not the one that over-cling together.  The more you love your child, the more you need to let them grow and have their own lives.


What do you think?