Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
Many abuse survivor become “Adult Children” though they stop into adulthood. It’s kind of like an adult look outside but there’s a child live within.
I’m very conscious about this symptoms and try my best to heal my inner child. But from time to time I still struggle with destructive behavior and act like a child, emotionally and psychologically.
The healing journey is long but as long as we keep moving forward, we will be fine.
What do you think?
In abusive family, no one for a child to tell and hide.
They kept the pain to themselves while a part of them died.
Some parents are completely undeserving of their child’s love. It’s not automatic. As in any kinds of relationship. It must be earned.
Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.
Parents abuse child verbally, physically and sexually.