Psychology # 48 : Inner Child

 

 

Effects of Childhood Trauma is unpredictable and can destroy individual over lifespan.

 

Many adult survivor still controlled by their inner child no matter what age they reach.  They may react to situation like a child even though they physically matured enough to handle the situation.

 

Personally, this is one of the weakness I’m still working on it.  Sometimes I just lead by my inner child emotion and forget I’m an adult and capable to own my life now.

 

How about You? Do you have an inner child within?

Psychology # 36 : Lost Child

 

 

Umm….though I’m a scapegoat, but do find some of the characteristics from “Lost Child”.

 

I was so QUIET and always lock myself in room for days, dive into reading and own stuffs in order to escape from the dysfunction / chaos at home.

 

When I step into adulthood, I feel anxious and shy in front of strangers, afraid of conflict because I already sick with drama.

 

How about you? Do you have these symptoms too?

 

Psychology # 32 : Silent Treatment

 

 

This is very common in dysfunctional / toxic family, or even at toxic work environment.

 

Abuser choose ignore or pretend victims are not exist, at the same time, they may over-empathize another person’s behavior, praise and adore them with no sense.

 

The aim is to downgrade the status of victim, make them know that they are not valuable / worthy to the abuser.  This can damage target’s self-esteem / confidence seriously as they may feel / think they are useless.