Effects of Childhood Trauma is unpredictable and can destroy individual over lifespan.
Many adult survivor still controlled by their inner child no matter what age they reach. They may react to situation like a child even though they physically matured enough to handle the situation.
Personally, this is one of the weakness I’m still working on it. Sometimes I just lead by my inner child emotion and forget I’m an adult and capable to own my life now.
How about You? Do you have an inner child within?
When children are abused they came to believe the messages their abusers deliver.
Remind yourself you’re not to blame for what a predator did to you.
People who fall into adult trauma bonds seek to the rescued from their painful childhood.
They crave validation from others in an attempt to escape the shame that defines them.
A narcissist will put the child down to make them feel inferior and worthless so that they struggle to maintain level of confidence needed to exist independently.
Scapegoats hold on to destructive relationship by forgetting the abuse and focusing on the fantasy.
Toxic parents constantly force children to suppress their own feelings in order to appease their parents.
Society / public make excuses for abusers, such as : Oh he’s just stress out, Oh, he / she didn’t had a good childhood thus they are now abuse another generation.
Stop it! Shut Up! We all human have the power to make choice : to abuse or not to abuse.
All these crapping excuses are not helping but sugar coating the abuse. Or protecting abusers to escape from their behaviors.
What do you think?