Quote 151 – Child of Narcissist

A narcissist will put the child down to make them feel inferior and worthless so that they struggle to maintain level of confidence needed to exist independently.

Quote of the day # 28 : Your Potential

People who repeatedly attack your confidence and self esteem are well aware of your potential…..Even if you are not.

 

Remember there’s a saying “nobody will kick an un-barking dog”.  Sometimes, the more a person attack you is a sign that he / she is envy of what you have.

 

They need to attack your confidence, drag you down in order to make themselves look good or feel better.

 

Don’t you agree?

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BuckUp # 3 : How to have more confidence

Confidence is what make a person sexy.

One of famous motivational speakers I like is Brendon Burchard.   Felt myself resonate with him easily because he’s not simply delivering thoughts like reading another self-help / self-development books, but very genuine, deep, up-spirit, especially enjoy watching his smile, definitely light up my days.   This make me realize I actually like people who smile a lot. From his videos, not merely learning life skills but also presentation, speaking and persuasion techniques.

His optimistic, energetic energy is so contagious, always lift my spirit up or make me have deep introspection on myself after watching.

“You are the average of 5 person you hang around with”, so if anyone who has difficulties to find mentors in real life like me, it’s a good source to motivate yourself, especially when times need more encouragement, wisdom and insights to get back on horse.

Video credit source : Brendon Burchard

Don’t stop comparing yourself to other people

It’s difficult for us not to comparing ourselves to others, I’m learning but still a lot of work to do.   Understand it’s kind of stupid as there are so many people prettier, better and clever than us – never-ended comparison if we want to.  Don’t consider myself comparing all the times, but occasionally which raise my self- doubts, or lower self-esteem.

How to be beautiful

Maintaining a tidy / approachable outlook and dress appropriate is important according to my experiences, but also believe beautiful is come from within. I came across so many so-called pretty persons but their behaviors / attitudes / personalities disgusted me so I never see them as a beautiful person.   This video is not teaching you how to make up or dress up but mode your inner beauty.

How to have more confidence

Confidence is very important.  I witnessed so many people who are talented but seldom succeed anything because their lack of confidence.  At the same time see confident persons get what they want simply because they believe they can.  Deep down understand I’m not worse than many co-workers / friends according to my knowledge / experience / traits, but my lack of confidence pull me down or sabotage my success / relationships frequently.  Never stop learning and practice this skill.

How to make a great 1st impression

Are you curious why some people can win others’ attention / trust right in the first 5 minutes? Learn from this video and hope you’ll be one of them.

Dealing with difficult times in life

If you are struggling in something now, or if you know anyone who you care / love is going through tough times, share this video with them.

How to become extraordinary

Many people want to be extraordinary right? but how to define extraordinary? Richer? Prettier? What to do to reach the extraordinary level of life?

Closing thoughts

I love absorbing wisdom from different people / background, because nobody can offer us the ultimate answer for all life challenges.  Person A may good at business topic according his / her experiences in the field, but person B may have better insights / strategics on relationships due to their happy marriage or numerous failed past-experiences..  In my opinion, to glorify / fantasize the ONLY ONE mentor is a myth.

How you feel about these videos? Or do you have any other resources that help you to become a better version of you?

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