Quote 95 – Narcissistic Family System 8

Pressure on you to make narcissistic family look good to outsiders.  Rejection or abandonment if you do not.

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Quote 94 – Narcissistic Family System 7

Ongoing scapegoating, criticism, attacks, blaming, shaming or shunning are used as a threat or weapon by the narcissist and their allies, if they don’t get their way.

Quote 127 – dysfunctional family scapegoat 6

If the scapegoat becomes too insistent about expressing his / her point of view.

The rest of the family may cut him / her off from it entirely, thus totally isolating him / her.

Quote 187 – Signs You Grew Up With A Toxic Parent 1

You find trusting relationships difficult – if parents, who are meant to be our main caregivers are deficient or can’t give us real support, we will find difficult to create supportive attachments when we grow up, or believe they are going last.

Quote 151 – Child of Narcissist

A narcissist will put the child down to make them feel inferior and worthless so that they struggle to maintain level of confidence needed to exist independently.

Psychology # 44 : The Mascot (Clown)

 

 

You noticed any child acting like this?

 

Even in workplace, I worked with people who always laugh for silly jokes or minor / non-sense things.

 

At surface, they seem happy for live and optimistic for everything, but I just knew they are masking their insecure / shame and guilty by fake happiness.

 

That’s why we heard stories from time to time, mentioning this or that person seems happy all times but how come they commit suicide or doing horrible things to others suddenly.

 

 

What do you think? You met someone like this?

Psychology # 28 : Displacement

 

That’s why people say the person who anger with you is not really related to what you do sometimes.

 

It’s probably they had a bad day or going through some struggles in life that they can’t deal with.

 

So are you always use “displacement” to escape from your troubles?

Quote of the day # 31 : Dysfunctional Family Role

The scapegoat – typically the child often described as imitating, deceitful, hostile and disobedient.

 

There are families that always focus on a specific child, claiming that he / she is the root of all problems in family.

 

Do you recognize one in your circle of friends? Or sadly you actually one of these scapegoat?  What’s your opinion?

 

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Quote of the day # 26 : Darkness of your past

What happened is done.  

Don’t let the darkness of your past block the light of joy in your present.

– Karen Salmansohn

 

Move on, take back control of your life.  Don’t let your past trapped you in a cage.

 

 

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