Quote 94 – Narcissistic Family System 7

Ongoing scapegoating, criticism, attacks, blaming, shaming or shunning are used as a threat or weapon by the narcissist and their allies, if they don’t get their way.

Quote 92 – Narcissistic Family System 5

You are expected to act like a parent to your parent(s).  Rather than having your parent(s) care for you.  You lose love, approval and privileges.

Quote 115 – Signs of Narcissistic Parent 14

They have the golden child and the scapegoat child.

One child was seen as perfect and capable of doing no harm.

The other child was seen as the black sheep, and the cause of all issues.