Pressure on you to make narcissistic family look good to outsiders. Rejection or abandonment if you do not.
Ongoing scapegoating, criticism, attacks, blaming, shaming or shunning are used as a threat or weapon by the narcissist and their allies, if they don’t get their way.
In narcissistic family system, poor family boundaries are norm. Intrusiveness, mistreatment, abuse is normalized.
Child of a narcissist exists solely to be of benefit to their parent.
Narcissist see their children as an extension of themselves.
Family members may align with the narcissist. These narcissist supporters can be the other parent, sibling or extended family.
Child of a narcissist likely struggle with : self-loathing, trust issues, anxiety or depression.
Motivation of the rest of the dysfunctional family for degrading and demeaning the scapegoat.
They never displayed any empathy.
They never asked about your feelings, sympathized with you, or cared.
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Narcissist have complete control over their child and will feel resentful, jealous if the child wants to break free from their clutches and create a life of their own.