Quote 95 – Narcissistic Family System 8

Pressure on you to make narcissistic family look good to outsiders.  Rejection or abandonment if you do not.

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Quote 94 – Narcissistic Family System 7

Ongoing scapegoating, criticism, attacks, blaming, shaming or shunning are used as a threat or weapon by the narcissist and their allies, if they don’t get their way.

Quote 93 – Narcissistic Family System 6

In narcissistic family system, poor family boundaries are norm.  Intrusiveness, mistreatment, abuse is normalized.

Quote 160 – Control over child

Narcissist have complete control over their child and will feel resentful, jealous if the child wants to break free from their clutches and create a life of their own.