Scapegoat can be attracted to people who repeatedly neglect, abuse or victimize them, which bolsters shame and self-blame.
Toxic parents constantly force children to suppress their own feelings in order to appease their parents.
When I was young, thought it’s what every child suppose to do at home.
Since we were not allowed to have a healthy social life, kind of locked up in the dysfunctional family so I don’t know what’s normal.
This until the more I approach outsiders, the more I read and educate myself, I was noticed that my role is exchanged with toxic parents.
In personal experience, sure it will damage child’s basic needs and developmental journey.
From time to time, I depressed for all those years I lost and took me years to establish all the necessary skills to survive in the society.