You can recognize survivors of abuse by their courage.
Optimism is a magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry. Show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.
This Quote described my situation at dysfunctional family very well.
According to my observation, it’s not only happen in family system, but also in everyday life, such as workplace.
Many times I observed colleagues / bosses will favorite a specific staff, in order to show his / her hate on another person. Body languages displayed that these targets people are no longer worthy in their eyes.
And if it happens in family, it can destroy self-esteem / self-worth of a child, which in turn will affect his / her all aspect of life.