The scapegoat will come to internalize, i.e. believe to be true, his / her family’s view of him / her.
Family scapegoat always the one who recognize the lie, break free and strive to heal themselves.
You’re scapegoated and labeled as self-centered for having your own wishes, interests, and face punishment if you pursue them.
They have the golden child and the scapegoat child.
One child was seen as perfect and capable of doing no harm.
The other child was seen as the black sheep, and the cause of all issues.
Scapegoated children and adults may suffer from chronic insecurity in relationships.