Psychology # 21 : Favoritism

 

 

This Quote described my situation at dysfunctional family very well.

 

According to my observation, it’s not only happen in family system, but also in everyday life, such as workplace.

 

Many times I observed colleagues / bosses will favorite a specific staff, in order to show his / her hate on another person.  Body languages displayed that these targets people are no longer worthy in their eyes.

 

And if it happens in family, it can destroy self-esteem / self-worth of a child, which in turn will affect his / her all aspect of life.

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Quote of the day # 28 : Your Potential

People who repeatedly attack your confidence and self esteem are well aware of your potential…..Even if you are not.

 

Remember there’s a saying “nobody will kick an un-barking dog”.  Sometimes, the more a person attack you is a sign that he / she is envy of what you have.

 

They need to attack your confidence, drag you down in order to make themselves look good or feel better.

 

Don’t you agree?

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Psychology # 5 – Narcissism

 

The more I educated myself, the more I realized I actually attract many narcissists into my life.  Guess it’s because I used to have a very low self-esteem and no ideas about healthy boundaries.

 

Hope many people will understand this personality disorder as early as possible.  It took me years to figure things out and start my healing journey.

 

How about you? Have you ever meet someone consist of this character?  How do you deal with them?