Remind yourself you’re not to blame for what a predator did to you.
Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life, tip toe if you must but take the step.
Take small step every day, as long as you are moving forward, you will reach destination eventually. Bless you for your healing!
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Leave & thanks for all difficult people in your life, they show you exactly who you do not want to be.
This is exactly how I feel from time to time, their disgusting attitudes remind me strongly that I will never become this type of person.
What do you think?
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You have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end.
You have the power! Don’t you realize it? You owe yourself to achieve what you dream of.
Power come from within, and it needs experience, knowledge and wisdom to back up. So keep on learning and exploring.
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You’ve got one go in life, so make the most of it. – Richard Brandson
Don’t let the past ruin your current and future life. Stay focus and move on.
Similar to many survivors, we felt sorry occasionally for the time we have lost / stolen by abusers, sometimes sad memories bombarded me and it took me hours / days to reclaim my peace at mind.
I knew I can’t get the time back I lost, thus at the same time I reminded myself I only have one life to live so I better make the most of it, now it’s my turn to live it according to my own wish.
How do you make the most of your life? Are you conscious about how short of life is?
Let me know how you live your life or share with someone who you think is struggling in their life now.
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Feed your Mind # 2
Chris Guillebeau is one of the “celebrity” blogger I’ve been followed for years.
His ways of thinking and approach of life is very unique and unconventional, which makes him stand out from crowd easily, his perspectives do open my minds a lot and add wisdom to my mental library.
Reason why I resonate with him : not only because I love travel so enjoy very much about his travel stories, but also his value. In addition, show me an “introvert” can also live their dream life according to our wish.
Society tend to praise extrovert more and assume that successful / happy person must be extrovert / outgoing.
His book “$100 start up” and new one “Born for this – how to find the work you meant to do” do inspire people how to live a fulfilling life, no matter our age, race, limitation or obstacles etc.
We all have our dreams but there always an “excuse” to hold us back, e.g. don’t have enough money to start our business, Chris put successful stories he interviewed in the book “$100 start up”, then many of us hate our jobs and drag ourselves to workplace everyday, Chris wrote another book we have the choice to do what we love / what we meant to be.
The only limitation is “ourselves”.
I love and enjoy seeing people who make an impact while stay humble, generous to others.
I have difficulties to find mentor in real life, guess it’s because my “introvert” attribution and anxiety / shy that stem from abusive history.
Feel insecure if people get too close to me, but I am always hungry for knowledge and wisdom so found many people I admire to follow from the net.
How about you? do you have any mentors that inspire you? Please share and let me know so I can learn from them too.
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Admire people who have been through a lot and still keep their head up.
Head Up! Even though you are going through a tough time.
This is a must attitude during healing journey.
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I measure myself in strength,
not pounds, sometimes in smiles
– Laurie Halse Anderson
From time to time, I’m frustrated at how much time / money people spend in fixing their outer appearance. People are so afraid to be judged according to their physical attribution.
I have no problem to see if someone who cares the look and dress nice, but simply because these make them feel worthy and a sign of self-love, not because assume once they change this and that, people will love or respect them more.
It’s not, I’ve met so many so-called gorgeous / beautiful people, but you just can’t get along with them after you know their characters / personalities. You just don’t want to spend 5 minutes more with them because their energy just drag you down.
I strongly feel inner beauty is the most incompatible quality that make you attract others.
So, How do you define yourself?
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The wound is the place where the light enters you. – Rumi
Hope the light enters your life whenever you’re stuck in a dark place.
There were times I can’t see the lights, I was devastated, lost of hope and didn’t know how to handle the situation. But then eventually I saw the light in the tunnel.
It’s not easy! but we survive.
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