Quote 197 – Sibling relationships in toxic family

In a dysfunctional family, parents are inadequate or abusive, not enough love available for children.

This sets up an unconscious competition between the children.

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Psychology # 21 : Favoritism

 

 

This Quote described my situation at dysfunctional family very well.

 

According to my observation, it’s not only happen in family system, but also in everyday life, such as workplace.

 

Many times I observed colleagues / bosses will favorite a specific staff, in order to show his / her hate on another person.  Body languages displayed that these targets people are no longer worthy in their eyes.

 

And if it happens in family, it can destroy self-esteem / self-worth of a child, which in turn will affect his / her all aspect of life.

Quote 59 : Healthy vs. Narcissistic Families

In healthy families, we encourage our children to be loving and close to each other.

In narcissistic families, children are pitted against each other & taught competition.