Quote 191 – – Signs You Grew Up With A Toxic Parent 5

Put your own emotional needs last – grew up with a verbally, physically abusive parent, or a manipulative one, your own emotional life will always come last in the hierarchy of household.

Quote 151 – Child of Narcissist

A narcissist will put the child down to make them feel inferior and worthless so that they struggle to maintain level of confidence needed to exist independently.

Quote # 40 : Unsafe Home

A house where a child is unsafe is not a home

 

Child need to be nurtured and developed in an environment that is safe and healthy.

 

What do you do to make sure your environment is good for kids to explore and develop into a healthy human?

 

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Quote of the day # 37 : Good actors in Dysfunctional Families

Dysfunctional families have a number of pretty good actors.

– Gene Hackman

 

According to my personal experience, this is true that everyone is acting a specific role to maintain the so-called harmony of family system.

Quote of the day # 35 : Difficult People

Leave & thanks for all difficult people in your life, they show you exactly who you do not want to be.

 

This is exactly how I feel from time to time, their disgusting attitudes remind me strongly that I will never become this type of person.

 

What do you think?

 

 

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Quote of the day # 32 : Unbearable Atmosphere

The scapegoat is the child who refuses to look content or stay silent in the unbearable atmosphere created in the family.

– Glynis Sherwood

 

Sometimes the one who stand out is probably the one who notice the dysfunction.  Don’t you agree?

 

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Psychology # 17 – Toxic People

 

 

Because of my insecure, I used to surround myself with toxic or people that do nothing good to me.

 

It happens commonly among abused survivors, we don’t know how to establish and nurture a healthy relationship.

 

Or many times because of our lack of confidence and low self-esteem issues, we tend to attract toxic people, who spot our weakness right away, which in turn drag our lives even further downward.

 

Today, though I am still struggling with relationship issues, but I am more alert to my surroundings.

 

How about you?  You attract the right people to your live or you just accept anyone step into your life?  Even though they are harm to you?