By blaming the scapegoat for the family’s difficulties, they evade their own responsibility.
Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
In a dysfunctional family, parents are inadequate or abusive, not enough love available for children.
This sets up an unconscious competition between the children.
Put your own emotional needs last – grew up with a verbally, physically abusive parent, or a manipulative one, your own emotional life will always come last in the hierarchy of household.
Anyone can have a child and call themselves “a parent”.
A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs & wants.
Some parents are completely undeserving of their child’s love. It’s not automatic. As in any kinds of relationship. It must be earned.
A narcissist will put the child down to make them feel inferior and worthless so that they struggle to maintain level of confidence needed to exist independently.
Parents actively resist you showing autonomy and becoming an independently entity.
A house where a child is unsafe is not a home
Child need to be nurtured and developed in an environment that is safe and healthy.
What do you do to make sure your environment is good for kids to explore and develop into a healthy human?
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