In troubled families, abuse and neglect are permitted. It’s the talking about them that is forbidden.
Child of a narcissist exists solely to be of benefit to their parent.
Narcissist see their children as an extension of themselves.
The scapegoat is blame for family’s problem, the rest of its members are stay in denial to their own contribution to this affairs.
The scapegoat finds him / herself not only rejected by his / her own immediate family. But possibly by those outside it too.
By blaming the scapegoat for the family’s difficulties, they evade their own responsibility.
The scapegoat is blamed for family’s deep-rooted problems.
Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it’s the place where we find the deepest heartache.
They liked to present a perfect family image to outsiders.
In a dysfunctional family, parents are inadequate or abusive, not enough love available for children.
This sets up an unconscious competition between the children.
Stop trying to win the favor of abusive and uncaring family members or friends.
Anyone who engages in this inappropriate behavior has personality problems, especially a parent who did not love their child.