Family’s protection of their own feelings of guilt onto the scapegoat is a psychological defense mechanism.
Be careful with your words. once they’re said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten.
Survivors of family scapegoating must learn to trust their feelings and perceptions.
Some parents are completely undeserving of their child’s love. It’s not automatic. As in any kinds of relationship. It must be earned.
Parents placing unrealistic expectations on child’s role in their life.
Scapegoats hold on to destructive relationship by forgetting the abuse and focusing on the fantasy.
This is common to be found in little child, but in fact it happens in adult too.
There are adults who always throw temper, act out or outraged for little things, sometimes it’s not about the situation / things happens, instead something bothering them within.
If you never deal with your inner self, you will have problems to deal with outside stuffs.
Don’t you agree? Are you acting out? or you know someone who always acting out?