Quote 93 – Narcissistic Family System 6

In narcissistic family system, poor family boundaries are norm.  Intrusiveness, mistreatment, abuse is normalized.

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Psychology # 44 : The Mascot (Clown)

 

 

You noticed any child acting like this?

 

Even in workplace, I worked with people who always laugh for silly jokes or minor / non-sense things.

 

At surface, they seem happy for live and optimistic for everything, but I just knew they are masking their insecure / shame and guilty by fake happiness.

 

That’s why we heard stories from time to time, mentioning this or that person seems happy all times but how come they commit suicide or doing horrible things to others suddenly.

 

 

What do you think? You met someone like this?

Quote # 44 : Toxic Parents

Unhealthy families discourage individual expression. Everyone must conform to thoughts and actions of toxic parents.

-Susan Forward

 

Typical characteristic of dysfunctional family.  Contrary to healthy family which allow every individual own their desires and speak their own voices.

 

Which type of family are you belong to?

 

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Quote of the day # 31 : Dysfunctional Family Role

The scapegoat – typically the child often described as imitating, deceitful, hostile and disobedient.

 

There are families that always focus on a specific child, claiming that he / she is the root of all problems in family.

 

Do you recognize one in your circle of friends? Or sadly you actually one of these scapegoat? ¬†What’s your opinion?

 

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Psychology # 15 – Scapegoating

 

It took me years to understand the term of “scapegoating”, the more I gain the knowledge, the more anger / frustration I got.

 

Wish I can understand this term when I was young, it can definitely save me lots of energy / time towards healing journey.

 

Hope less people will be trapped like me for so long.