Psychology # 39 : Regression

 

 

After Abuse, victims may chose to lock themselves up, stay isolated from the crowd / society or engage in destructive behaviors.

 

That’s why the abuse is not only affect the moment of abuse, but most damaging is years after abused incident.

 

People simply underestimate the duration of healing journey.

 

Do you agree?

Quote of the day # 22 : You have the power

You have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end.

 

 

You have the power! Don’t you realize it? You owe yourself to achieve what you dream of.

 

Power come from within, and it needs experience, knowledge and wisdom to back up. So keep on learning and exploring.

 

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Quote of the day # 17 : Head Up

Admire people who have been through a lot and still keep their head up.

 

Head Up! Even though you are going through a tough time.

 

This is a must attitude during healing journey.

 

 

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Quote of the day # 12 : Strength

I measure myself in strength,

not pounds, sometimes in smiles

– Laurie Halse Anderson

 

From time to time, I’m frustrated at how much time / money people spend in fixing their outer appearance.  People are so afraid to be judged according to their physical attribution.

 

I have no problem to see if someone who cares the look and dress nice, but simply because these make them feel worthy and a sign of self-love, not because assume once they change this and that, people will love or respect them more.

 

It’s not, I’ve met so many so-called gorgeous / beautiful people, but you just can’t get along with them after you know their characters / personalities.  You just don’t want to spend 5 minutes more with them because their energy just drag you down.

 

I strongly feel inner beauty is the most incompatible quality that make you attract others.

 

So, How do you define yourself?

 

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