Quote 62 : Abusive family members

Stop trying to win the favor of abusive and uncaring family members or friends.

Anyone who engages in this inappropriate behavior has personality problems, especially a parent who did not love their child.

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Psychology # 53 : Psychological Boundries

I found not too many people understand the importance of psychological boundaries.

 

Especially for those who were abused for a long time, they lost the identity and fear of missing out or abandonment.  This make them very valuable, either let others step over their boundaries and being controlled by others’ desire and need.

 

Or they become very controlling and want to step in other business. Always want to check and spy on their love ones, sadly, this unhealthy clinging scare people away.

 

How about you? Do you protect your psychological boundaries? Or let others violate according to their needs?

Psychology # 50 : Control Me Syndrome

Don’t know if it’s common or not, but I do find some of the people feel trapped in toxic relationship, not because they love that person but scare of leaving the comfort zone.

 

This is true that as long as we get used to the environment, we feel it’s more safe and secure to stay in the same old situation, even though it hurts, rather than jump the cliff to explore another chance.

 

It’s scary, i knew it.

 

What do you think? Are you one of them? or you know someone like this?

Quote of the day # 35 : Difficult People

Leave & thanks for all difficult people in your life, they show you exactly who you do not want to be.

 

This is exactly how I feel from time to time, their disgusting attitudes remind me strongly that I will never become this type of person.

 

What do you think?

 

 

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Quote of the day # 27 : Don’t be ashamed

Don’t be ashamed of your story, it will inspire others.

 

 

Have you ever afraid to share your story? Why you share them?  No matter what, thanks for sharing yours.

 

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Quote of the day # 26 : Darkness of your past

What happened is done.  

Don’t let the darkness of your past block the light of joy in your present.

– Karen Salmansohn

 

Move on, take back control of your life.  Don’t let your past trapped you in a cage.

 

 

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Quote of the day # 23 : Chose your people

You cannot change the people around you, but can change the people that you chose to be around.

 

How you chose the right people around you? Do you agree people around you will affect your every aspect of life tremendously?

 

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Quote of the day # 19: Be strong after abuse

 

You’ve got one go in life, so make the most of it. – Richard Brandson

 

Don’t let the past ruin your current and future life.  Stay focus and move on.

 

Similar to many survivors, we felt sorry occasionally for the time we have lost / stolen by abusers, sometimes sad memories bombarded me and it took me hours / days to reclaim my peace at mind.

 

I knew I can’t get the time back I lost, thus at the same time I reminded myself I only have one life to live so I better make the most of it, now it’s my turn to live it according to my own wish.

 

 

How do you make the most of your life?  Are you conscious about how short of life is?

 

Let me know how you live your life or share with someone who you think is struggling in their life now.

 

 

 

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Quote of the day # 17 : Head Up

Admire people who have been through a lot and still keep their head up.

 

Head Up! Even though you are going through a tough time.

 

This is a must attitude during healing journey.

 

 

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