Psychology # 50 : Control Me Syndrome

Don’t know if it’s common or not, but I do find some of the people feel trapped in toxic relationship, not because they love that person but scare of leaving the comfort zone.


This is true that as long as we get used to the environment, we feel it’s more safe and secure to stay in the same old situation, even though it hurts, rather than jump the cliff to explore another chance.


It’s scary, i knew it.


What do you think? Are you one of them? or you know someone like this?

Quote of the day # 35 : Difficult People

Leave & thanks for all difficult people in your life, they show you exactly who you do not want to be.


This is exactly how I feel from time to time, their disgusting attitudes remind me strongly that I will never become this type of person.


What do you think?



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Quote of the day # 27 : Don’t be ashamed

Don’t be ashamed of your story, it will inspire others.



Have you ever afraid to share your story? Why you share them?  No matter what, thanks for sharing yours.


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Quote of the day # 26 : Darkness of your past

What happened is done.  

Don’t let the darkness of your past block the light of joy in your present.

– Karen Salmansohn


Move on, take back control of your life.  Don’t let your past trapped you in a cage.



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Quote of the day # 23 : Chose your people

You cannot change the people around you, but can change the people that you chose to be around.


How you chose the right people around you? Do you agree people around you will affect your every aspect of life tremendously?


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Quote of the day # 19: Be strong after abuse


You’ve got one go in life, so make the most of it. – Richard Brandson


Don’t let the past ruin your current and future life.  Stay focus and move on.


Similar to many survivors, we felt sorry occasionally for the time we have lost / stolen by abusers, sometimes sad memories bombarded me and it took me hours / days to reclaim my peace at mind.


I knew I can’t get the time back I lost, thus at the same time I reminded myself I only have one life to live so I better make the most of it, now it’s my turn to live it according to my own wish.



How do you make the most of your life?  Are you conscious about how short of life is?


Let me know how you live your life or share with someone who you think is struggling in their life now.




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Quote of the day # 17 : Head Up

Admire people who have been through a lot and still keep their head up.


Head Up! Even though you are going through a tough time.


This is a must attitude during healing journey.



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Quote of the day # 12 : Strength

I measure myself in strength,

not pounds, sometimes in smiles

– Laurie Halse Anderson


From time to time, I’m frustrated at how much time / money people spend in fixing their outer appearance.  People are so afraid to be judged according to their physical attribution.


I have no problem to see if someone who cares the look and dress nice, but simply because these make them feel worthy and a sign of self-love, not because assume once they change this and that, people will love or respect them more.


It’s not, I’ve met so many so-called gorgeous / beautiful people, but you just can’t get along with them after you know their characters / personalities.  You just don’t want to spend 5 minutes more with them because their energy just drag you down.


I strongly feel inner beauty is the most incompatible quality that make you attract others.


So, How do you define yourself?


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BuckUp # 6 : What matters most in life?

Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.

Bumped into this video channel by accident.  At first, I thought topics are too serious but was amazed by it’s presentation.  It’s funny to watch animated cartoons as they try to present serious topics with a humor / funny / cutie approach.  This make audience easy to understand and not get bored while watching.

Video Sources : Prager University

What matters most in life?

Everyone is so busy.  I worked with so many professionals / successful business people but what I commonly found from their lives : they are not happy at all.  This always scare me and remind myself that I never want to have the same life.

What really that matters in life? money? fame? success? Many people spent whole life chasing something that not really matter to them, until one day they realized “oh, life is finished”.   Sadly people keep doing same thing over and over again because they don’t know how or afraid to change even when they notice this is not what they want for life.

Understanding Men and Women : why they see things differently

No secret that men and women are thinking differently.  But what surprised me is there still lots of people projecting their frame of thinking to other sex.  Many conflicts I observed from couples / lovers are originated from their inability of using a different sex-perspective in communicating with another half.

He wants you

Title is not well to explain the video, but this one is actually quite funny.  It explores how to deal with your lover / couple watching another women in public / beach.  Demonstration is funny and after watching this video, many women should be relieved, feel much better or no longer afraid when next time their men stare at other women.

The missing tile symptom

Many people tend to spot on missing elements in life, i.e. negative.  Some people just drive me crazy as they never stop to find mistakes / faults / flaws on things / people in daily life.  They nag and complain every time open mouths which make them look very ugly. (even if they put on lots of make up or dress nicely).

Not saying I’m completely positive, but I still can distinguish people who are just “emotion vampire”, drain you down and eat up all your energy.  This video teach us how to view things differently.

Happiness Equation

How to be happy? This is a never-ended discussed topic.  See if this equation help you to be more happy.

Change your life

If you are not happy with your current status, learn from video to change it.

So, what matters most in your life?

Are you jealous or feel uncomfortable when your men watching another women?

Are you always focus at bad side when things happen?

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