Terrorizing – parents threaten the child verbally, yell, scream, or curse, swing from rage to warmth to rage.
Even if you’re empathic towards family, you are accused of being uncaring for not putting others, especially the narcissist first.
By blaming the scapegoat for the family’s difficulties, they evade their own responsibility.
Family scapegoat always the one who recognize the lie, break free and strive to heal themselves.
You have been taught to believe that you are the crazy and imbalanced one, instead of them.
You’re scapegoated and labeled as self-centered for having your own wishes, interests, and face punishment if you pursue them.
The scapegoat is blamed for family’s deep-rooted problems.
Optimism is a magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.
Child of a narcissist likely struggle with : self-loathing, trust issues, anxiety or depression.
You are not allowed to be yourself. Not allowed to have your own needs, personality and independence.